20 tips to cope with pregnancy

With pregnancy comes many different emotions, challenges and sometimes fears. With such a positive outcome you have lots to look forward to as an expecting parent, but to get you through those nine months of uncertainty, here are 20 top tips to make life a little easier.

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Top tips to get you through your pregnancy

1.    Pregnancy tip 1: Get enough sleep

With approximately 8 out of 10 women suffering from insomnia while pregnant, for those of you lucky enough to drift off at your leisure, be sure to make the most of this luxury. You need as much energy as possible while carrying your child and sleep is the easiest way to get it, so aim for eight hours per night, with naps if you can afford them.

2.    Pregnancy tip 2: Keep hydrated

Dehydration can cause tiredness, headaches and dizziness so be sure to keep your water intake topped up while you're pregnant. Many of the smaller ailments that come with pregnancy can be prevented or eased by drinking enough water, but keep your caffeine intake to less than 200mg per day and avoid alcoholic drinks.

3.    Pregnancy tip 3: Cope with nausea and sickness

Eating small frequent meals, drinking plenty of fluids and resting should prevent that nauseous feeling in the early stages of pregnancy. Morning sickness in particular is thought to be heightened by hunger, so try to eat a small snack before bed to hopefully ward off this queasy feeling when you wake.

4.    Pregnancy tip 4: Prevent stretch marks

Stretch marks on the breasts and stomach as they enlarge are indeed one of the downsides of pregnancy, but prevention is better than cure, so start applying skincare oil before your bump starts to show as this will strengthen the skin to hopefully prevent permanent scarring.

5.    Pregnancy tip 5: Talk things through

The worries and anxieties that are naturally on your mind while pregnant will increase your stress levels if not addressed. Speak with a doctor, your partner or close friend to share your concerns and hopefully halve the problem, as stress is not good for you or your baby. You'll be surprised how something so simple can help you feel so much better.

6.    Pregnancy tip 6: Attend antenatal classes

Antenatal classes are the best way to receive all the important information you need while expecting. Everything will be answered which means you have no room for your mind to wander and worry about the 'what ifs'. Being in the company of other expecting parents will also provide you with the support you need.

7.    Pregnancy tip 7: Alleviate sore breasts

As hormones surge through your body and your breasts enlarge it is quite common for them to throb or tingle. Wear a well-fitting and supportive bra (preferably non-underwired) and a cotton sleep bra during the night. Gentle massage may also ease the aching.

8.    Pregnancy tip 8: Put your feet up

As your baby grows inside you the weight exerted on the rest of your body increases, so naturally your poor feet and legs will suffer. Be sure to routinely take the weight off your feet by propping them up on the sofa or a foot stool, which will also hopefully prevent varicose veins.

9.    Pregnancy tip 9: Improve your circulation

Swollen ankles, feet and fingers are a downside of pregnancy, but try some gentle exercises to stimulate blood flow and reduce water retention. Bend and stretch your feet and hands up and down while pointing your toes and fingers, then rotate your feet and hands eight times to the left, then the right in circular motions.

10. Pregnancy tip 10: Keep calm and de-stressed

Being stress-free is better for your baby as high blood pressure can wreak all sorts of havoc on your baby's development. Having relaxing warm (not hot) baths, getting your partner to rub your feet and even something as small as enjoying a cup of tea with your favourite magazine will all contribute to a relaxed pregnancy state.

11. Pregnancy tip 11: Do things for you

With so much preparation for the baby, it can be easy to forget to take care of yourself and indulge -after all, you're doing all the hard work so you deserve a treat. Book in for a blow dry or manicure, enjoy watching a film or meet up with a friend. Treating yourself to the odd purchase while shopping for the essential baby items will also lift your spirits.

12. Pregnancy tip 12: Coping with pregnancy cravings

It is unknown why women crave certain things during pregnancy, but it is most likely down to hormonal changes (isn't everything?!). It is indeed satisfying to 'give in' to the foods you crave, but eating a varied diet full of different colours, textures and tastes should help if you want to manage the cravings that aren't so healthy.

13. Pregnancy tip 13: Enjoy exercise

Gentle exercise will play its part in controlling low moods, which can be common due to your change in hormones, as well as weight gain during pregnancy. Swimming, yoga and even low intensity aerobics will give you a healthy dose of endorphins and will support your body during the strains of pregnancy and labour. Just don't overdo it and be aware of the precautions.

14. Pregnancy tip 14: Coping with the 'un-pleasantries'

Haemorrhoids, vaginal discharge and constipation are just some of the less pleasant bodily functions that crop up during pregnancy. While there are remedies available to alleviate these discomforts, try to accept them as being par for the course. Wear comfortable clothing and enjoy frequent showers or bubble baths.

15. Pregnancy tip 15: Reducing backache

As the hollow of your back becomes more distinct and your joints become strained, backache can be very common during pregnancy. Wear flat shoes to evenly distribute your weight, sit with your back straight and use a support pillow. You could also treat yourself to a massage, try some yoga, or invest in a microwavable oat bag or hot water bottle.

16. Pregnancy tip 16: Enjoy your sex life

In most circumstances, sex with your partner during pregnancy can be perfectly safe, but it can bring with it challenges. During sex, the rush of blood to your breasts may make them tender, or you may feel uncomfortable if your partner's penis penetrates too deeply. Find comfortable positions such as lying on your sides, or finding other ways to be affectionate.

17. Pregnancy tip 17: Be organised

Nine months may seem like a long time, but boy does it fly by! The last thing you want as an expectant mum is last minute panic, stress or the feeling of having too much to do. Organisation is key during pregnancy; from basic necessities such as housework, to planning your hospital bag and nursery. Get out your diary and rope in friends to support your plans.

18. Pregnancy tip 18: Voice your needs

Keeping quiet and suffering in silence will not get you anywhere, and will only lead to increased stress levels (a big no no for mums to be!). Delegating and asking for favours is a must while pregnant as your body is going through too much to cope with the everyday alone. If you can't be bossy when you're carrying a child then when can you be?

19. Pregnancy tip 19: Coping with dizziness

Hot flushes and dizziness are a common side effect of pregnancy and often indicate that the brain is not receiving enough blood and oxygen. Take your time with everything you do during pregnancy - rushing is against the rules here mums! While you may be used to running around, ticking boxes, while pregnant you should think of yourself as being in slow motion to avoid head rushes, dizzy spells and even fainting.

20. Pregnancy tip 20: Controlling your bladder

During pregnancy as the baby's head presses against your bladder, you may feel the urge to urinate more frequently. To cope with this new urge, avoid drinking late at night to prevent the mid-slumber bathroom trip. Also, try gently rocking back and forth while on the toilet to help fully empty the bladder, meaning you won't need to empty it again so soon.

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