By Sedusa
You’re all horny but don’t feel like
moving even a finger, let alone gyrating energetically and breaking the
bedsprings. Here are some tips to get him to do all the dirty work… ;)
Don’t
get position crazy:
First things first, stick to a simple, tried-and-tested position. Nothing
scores like the missionary for the lazy woman. Else, ride him but get him to
(slow/fast) thrust while you hold on to his shoulders and enjoy the ride. Play with
your breasts while he’s at it. Or just let them bounce all over the place. It
could trick him into thinking you’re doing all the work. Tee hee!
Stay
(semi-)clothed:
Keeping some of your clothes on not only saves some time and energy but can
also be surprisingly erotic in a strange way. Like forbidden fruit.
No-sex
sex:
Sometimes, a session of wild, energetic making out can leave you drained. So be
it then. Extended foreplay, no sex isn’t the worst idea. It usually ensures
great sex during the next session.
Watch
XXX:
Or XX (less hardcore) or X (mild, sensual erotica). It’s like having somebody
perform to turn you on, saving you the energy you’d use on foreplay/sex.
Pleasure
yourselves… together:
Considering that we know our pleasure points perfectly well, why not be in
charge of our respective bodies for a change? This, or even mutual
masturbation, can be an unexpectedly erotic experience as it calls for intimacy
and a deep comfort level.
Get
hand-some, mouth-some: Sex doesn’t always have to translate into
intercourse. A slow massage with a happy ending or some oral action also
qualifies.
Whisper,
moan:
If you don’t feel like even exploring his body with your hands, use your mouth
instead. For or gentle nibbling/biting or simply some dirty talk and low moans.
Compliment: Tell him he’s
super hot, awesomely muscled and amazingly well-endowed. What man wouldn’t want
to hear that? What man wouldn’t go on and on after these compliments? Of
course, there’s got to be a grain of truth there else he could think you’re
being sarcastic.
That’s
it baby, don’t stop!
Screaming this out during sex is a huge ego massage. Treating him like a
sex-God is sure to excite him all the more. And yes, that’s it, he’s definitely
not going to stop whatever it is that he’s doing.
Make
it a habit:
Fortunately or unfortunately, our bedroom habits often fall into a predictable
pattern after a certain period of time. If you usually let him do all the work,
he’ll stop expecting things from you. However, being a perpetual lazybones isn’t
the best idea for your relationship. Surprise him by taking charge every now
and then.
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