Once upon a time, three blind kids who
have never heard of an elephant, were taken near to the elephant. First kid who
touched the elephant from the tail commented that elephant is hairy and thin.
Second kid who touched the elephant from legs concluded that elephant is very
fat and unmovable thing. Third kid who
touched the elephant from the trunk said that elephant is a curvy moving
object. Do you think any of the kid said the right thing? Do you think that
instant comments by any kid was a right approach? Do you think you behave just
like blind kids, that is, giving instantaneous conclusive comments about people
instead of judging them properly. In fact, sometimes you behave worst than
that. You associate things with people which are never supposed to be concluded
in that way. Sometimes you do character assassination of people and put their
respect on stake. Isn't it unfair? So how to judge people? Here are some points
to be considered:
1. Be positive. Even if you notice any
negative thing about someone. Don't conclude about it. There is a chance your
brain is thinking against the reality. Don't let your brain cook bad curry.
Explore the negative observation extensively but avoid spying on someone. Be
straight and be upfront.
2. Physical appearance is not everything. Don't judge
people by their looks. A person in normal clothes and in a normal vehicle might
be better than a person in brand new Mercedes or BMW. On the contrary, a rich
man can also be equally a great person.
3. When judging
people look for the Ethical richness
such as honesty, truthfulness, simplicity, behavior, friendliness,
down-to-earth attitude etc.
4. A fly will always sit on the dirty and rotten part
of the tomato.
Never do this in your life. Every person has good and bad habits. Look at the
positive side of things. If you feel something wrong, talk about it but don't
spread negative info about someone. Hate the bad habit, not the person.
Judging a person does not define who
they are… it defines who you are !!!
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