By Nisha Samson
Nonviolence and ahimsa, Gandhi's way
of life seems like a misfit in today's world. Do we need it in this
technology-driven, hard-pressed-for-time life? Of course, we do. Are we
applying his principles to our lives? No, we're not. Every action is followed with
a reaction and every reaction is followed by another reaction. MensXP
understands the need for the Mahatma's way of life, but we ask, given today's
pace of life, are his principles a thing of the past? We take a look at why
Gandhism is the only way forward.
Life
As We Know It
The next big career jump, that
business deal that has to be brokered, the new car, planning holidays, funding
your children's university education abroad, and a million other 'next's'
dictate our lives. Time is money and time well-spent is money earned. In the
rush from one day to another, losing sight of the simple life as we knew it,
Gandhism, is a thing of the past... or so we'd like to believe. We've been
conditioned to live (rather, exist) in fast forward mode - if you're not on
fast forward, you're missing out. And, in this get somewhere quick race, we
find ourselves chasing our own tails. We're trying to catch it but of course,
we never will. Modern life amounts to just this. We're chasing, running,
beating one another, stepping over one another, tripping each other, all in an
effort to get somewhere... only problem is no one knows where or what that
somewhere is.
But, mindless chasing ensures one
thing - fatigue catches up. And it's during this time when we turn to principles,
lessons, morals of life form a time gone-by, only to realise that Gandhism is
not just a way of life, it's the need of modern society.
Gandhism
Truth, nonviolence, vegetarianism,
being a Brahmachari, simplicity and faith were six principles that Gandhiji
held dear. Some might argue that Gandhiji lived in the 1940s and these precepts
were easy to follow. But, Gandhiji preached and lived his teachings through
India's independence struggle, and to say that those were easy times would be a
gross understatement.
Each of us has different perceptions
about Gandhism; after all, we take what we perceive and what we need from the
Mahatma's teachings. Perception depends completely on the phase of life each
one is and we learn our lessons based on life and the Mahatma's teachings that
get us through. However, even though perceptions vary from person-to-person,
the Mahatma's teachings were based in love, nonviolence, peace, forgiveness,
simplicity and satisfaction.
Most of his teachings and quotes are
manipulated, but as the meaning is preserved and we apply them in our daily
lives, even manipulation is forgiven.
Let's take a closer look at each of
Gandhiji's principles and apply them to life as we know it today.
Truth: This is
something we externalise. When Gandhiji spoke about the practice of truth, he
spoke about self-practice to begin with. We lose the plot when we expect the
world to be honest with us. It's not unreasonable, but we have to begin by
being truthful to ourselves. And this is doable with introspection.
Nonviolence: When we look
at this literally, we assume that we're nonviolent. After all, we don't go
around striking people, do we? Gandhiji referred to nonviolence as a state of
mind, which means that he taught us to control our temper. How often do we find
ourselves holding the fuse because something/someone has angered us? It's
impossible to never get angry, but when we do, we have to be conscious that we
are and try and go back to being equanimous.
Vegetarianism: Vegetarianism
isn't a way of life, it's a choice. Some eat meat and some don't, this depends
completely on your preference.
Being
a Brahmachari:
This, too, does not apply to everyone! But, when we look at applying it to
day's life, Gandhiji's teachings asks men to refrain from objectifying women.
Live a family life and make sure that you respect women everywhere else.
Simplicity: This
principle is possibly the one that makes most sense in today's world. Modern
life is not just about wishes and wants, it's about going to any length to
fulfil one's desires, and this is where the problems begin. Aspiring for things
and working towards them is one thing; desiring them and adopting illegal ways
to get them is another. Gandhiji's teachings about simplicity also bring back
focus to happier, healthier lives. He teaches us that simplicity means knowing
what you want but to have the willingness to work towards getting it.
Faith: When Gandhiji
referred to faith, he taught mankind to believe in himself and in a higher
force. He never propagated religion but spirituality. For the Mahatma faith
began with oneself and not following someone else. In today's world, faith is
hard to uphold, but holding on to it gives mankind hope, and most times, hope
is everything one really needs.
All
is Well
All Gandhiji's sayings that are
immortalised and repeated today, tell us of love, sharing, giving and caring.
Do these values have space in today's world? Yes, they do; and in most cases,
we've got to make space for them. Domestic life is demanding as is professional
life. Finding a balance is difficult, not impossible. And this is where the
Mahatma's teachings come in.
Accept it for what it does - it could
be a guide, words of comfort, a sign of hope, a personification of strength -
Gandhi's words and ways of life are exactly what we need them to be. They could
be a source of strength to you but words of comfort to your wife. Whatever they
mean and however we accept them, it is the Mahatma's way of life that reminds
us of a simpler time and provides us with a beacon of hope that even though
times are ever changing and life isn't what it used to be, Gandhi's teachings
will continue to stand strong through centuries to come. His way of life, the
words he left us with, the simplicity he taught us, will provide respite and
hope for generations to come.
Source: The Mahatma’s Way of Life
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